What is love ??

 

Last few months especially last few weeks ...I've been to many bloggers and found similar questions ...and I found myself getting linked with all...and was thinking that how could it be possible that every  blogger has a similar pain...and then I remembered my old mantra that all the heartbroken ones are bloggers and orkuteers  :D..but few days back a post in Ne's blog forced me back to thinking  the question I asked above







What is love ?

Love is sense of belonging...that u belong to her and she belongs to u... ( since I'm a male and straight :D  ..I'm writing my views only ..so I love 'her' and 'she' loves me :D) ...

Sometimes it comes with a sense of possessiveness guy like meself love it while others feels it obstruction of their freedom..but that doesn't mean that those guys don't love their lovers...


Priority associated with love is also hard to get...sometime u r on the top priority and sometimes u r not..and that is the reason of feeling the insecurity..

When I was in love for the fst time...it was very tender... no thoughts of vulgarity ever reached my mind..every touch was so tender and so lovely making love' made perfect sense but since I was from a culture which don't recognize sex before marriage..I refrained meself from making love to her as I was so sure that she will be mine sumday and I should respect her virginity till then...and then things changed and we parted and after her leaving the world for me ...things was never the same before...I thought I will never fall in love again..I avoided female company for long but then I was in love again...and I came to know that you can't never ever avoid the feeling of love coming back to u... and the word '

I was fortunate enough to have several loves coming to me sometimes together and sometimes one by one..so was never ever alone..but I had a sense of possessiveness with the high dose of my ugliness which drove away all of then but with my other good factors intact...I have the blessings of love always..and have seen more or less every aspects of love....

Biochemically .. (Can't help..after all I'm doing PhD in it :P )...love is secretion of oxytocin ..a hormone which is triggered by secretion of pheromones from the opposite sex capable of producing the healthy offsprings ...so if the girl is well and she secretes the pheromonesattracts every other boy in vicinity and oxytocin is so strong that it is hard to resist the feelings of cuddliness and these hormones if are sufficiently released in your system you can kill and you can die for the pheromone secreting female...every pheromone have a biochemical signature that only your hormone system can identify....so u r always bonded with the same female and u don't have control because the Oxytocin is similar to drugs and ur body become so needful of that that u become an addict and u can't leave or live without her... more than the others... that

Oxytocin can also triggered with the thoughts but the quantity is less...and since u don't have it enough on ur system u feel the feeling of missing.... and sometimes u keep the token of ur love and keep it close to u so as to have the sense of pheromones from them and u have the butterflies in ur stomach running....so Love is cocaine :)


So ..see.. u r weak from ur body feelings that drove u to love and u r just slave of ur hormones and u call it love the eternal :D....


But wateva the hell I've written above...it is needless to say that I'm always ready to be slave of that hormones ..after all people say drinking, smoking and drugs kills ..but I do them all ..so what's wrongwith the love hormones ..

So love is slavery but I love to be a slave of me mistress....and I know u do too :P

With love....

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